Friday, January 4, 2013

Belinda's Funeral Services


Belinda Wilding Craft died very unexpectedly on December 31st due to complications after a basic knee surgery. In this post we wanted to share specifics about how this came about with those who are interested to know more details.

We will share her actual Obituary in a different post. Check the bottom of this post though for Funeral details.

Belinda Craft had a basic knee surgery the evening of Thursday,  December 27th to correct a torn meniscus that had been bothering her for months (possibly years).  The tear was pretty bad, but surgery appeared to have gone alright.  The next day was spent in bed recovering and sleeping, besides extra pain in the knee (for obvious reasons), she appeared to be just fine.

Saturday, December 29th, after sleeping and taking care of her youngest son, Jacob, who was sick, she woke up with shortness of breath and headed to the bathroom. Very quickly she couldn't stand anymore, and laid herself down on the bathroom floor and told Jacob to go get Dad.
She appeared to be having an anxiety attack as she kept saying she couldn't  breathe and to call the ambulance. A couple minutes before the ambulance arrived, she lost consciousness and went into Cardiac Arrest (lost oxygen and pulse).  Dad began chest compressions and then soon the paramedics arrived and it took approximately 12 minutes to regain her pulse.

It was discovered that she had a Pulmonary Embolism (blood clots in the lungs) which caused the cardiac arrest.

For two days she was in a full coma and was on Life Support. Some brain activity was detected at first which gave us a lot of hope, even though she remained in her coma and wouldn't wake up. We had a decent amount of hope that things would turn out after a 24 hour Cold Therapy was done to help stop swelling and further damage. 

However, Sunday morning things turned for worse when her blood pressure spiked and then dropped and her eyes dilated, which indicates a possible stroke and/or problems in the brain. When they did an MRI, they did discover swelling of the brain, and it was unknown how much more damage would occur since it was impossible for them to stop the swelling under the circumstances. But it was discovered that there was not a blood clot in the brain as they had originally guessed. So we kept praying and hoping for the best over the next day. 

 However,  because of the extensive damage done to her brain from the lack of oxygen for those 12 minutes or more on Saturday, the damaged brain eventually lost full brain wave activity sometime Monday morning. After several tests,  including an Apnea test to see if she would breath on her own as they pumped in oxygen, her brain waves were tested again and she was officially declared brain dead, and that she had died December 31st, 2012.

Her Life Support was extended for a few more days, so that my mom could do one last service with her otherwise healthy body. She was able to donate her kidneys, liver, and heart valves to recipients in need.

Even though this tragedy happened so suddenly and unexpectedly, we feel comforted in the Plan of Salvation and that we will see her again.  We exercised our faith and we know she would have recovered fully if it wasn't her time to go. However, the Lord had a different plan for her, and our family's faith is in Jesus Christ and is not dependent on outcomes. We know He will give us the strength to get through this  if we keep our faith in Him and that there was a reason for the outcome to turn out the way it did.


We invite any and all of you who knew and loved Belinda to come to the Viewing and/or Funeral! She had many many friends and would love for any who are available, to come! Because she had so many friends, we hope the word will get out to everyone in past wards, neighborhoods, schools, or anything else she was involved in.  Feel welcome to pass along this information to anyone you know would care to be at Belinda's funeral. In the past, she always did request a large turn out! :)

Funeral Services are as follows:

The Funeral and the Viewings will be held at:
LDS Church
(on the corner of) 600 East 3200 North, Lehi, UT

The viewing will be held on:
Friday, January 4th 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Saturday, January 5th  9:00AM - 10:30 PM
(The Saturday line will close at 10:30, so please arrive early since we anticipate a large turn out and long lines)


The Funeral will be held on:
Saturday, January 5th  at 11:00 AM


We thank everyone for their faith, thoughts, prayers, and various ways you have reached out to our family. Thank you for being a part of our lives as well as part of Belinda's wonderful life. We wish you all the best!

To share condolences, stories, and photos of Belinda, please email them to:

memoriesofbelinda@gmail.com

Where they will then be posted on:

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